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how do you know if you are really in love?


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Dan TL offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 344 #
La Mirada, CA, US | 3 weeks, 6 days ago (4 minutes after post)

The one phrase I hear the most about this is.

“when your in love, you don’t even question the fact that your in love”

something along those lines, i wonder who made that phrase?

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kensu offline Verified User (3 weeks, 6 days) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 6 days ago (8 minutes after post)

When you laugh and cry together: when you want to be with the person all the time: when you complement each other and have the best times you have ever had with each other…. chances are YOU are in love.

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ariel_loves_music offline Verified User (4 weeks, 1 day) Shouts: 33 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 6 days ago (10 minutes after post)

You know your in love when you see sparks fly. When he kisses you it’s like somethign from a love story. When you see him your excited and nervous. You can see it in your eyes. You just know it’s life because it’s unquestionable. You just know. It is like something that you only dreamed could happen.

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ariel_loves_music offline Verified User (4 weeks, 1 day) Shouts: 33 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 6 days ago (10 minutes after post)

*you just no it’s love
Sorry about the spelling mistake…..

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Som offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 6 days ago (10 minutes after post)

ok dolphin knock it off three blogs in ten minutes is to much.

simple, you will willingly give your life for another, end of story

settle down and kiss the guy who wants your dolphin a** once you have been with him for a couple years you will know

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3 weeks, 6 days ago (20 minutes after post)

Is there such a thing as love as far as a relationship?

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Tzubake offline Verified User (1 month, 1 week) Shouts: 214 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 6 days ago (31 minutes after post)

You know when you’re in love when it hurts too much to let it go…

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Dragon_Lady offline Verified User (5 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 weeks, 6 days ago (35 minutes after post)

When your body, mind and heart all agree “this is right”.

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 weeks, 6 days ago (47 minutes after post)

I think it takes time to find and everything feels right, even when things go wrong! You can disagree and not fall out. You can be in each others company for long periods of time. Life becomes a partnership, it is not just you, it is you and them.

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An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 5 days ago (1 hour, 56 minutes after post)

You would know when you: care, cherish, think of, respect, understand, commit, feel for, laugh, cry, smile, like, and want him/her more than anything in this world.

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Syke offline Verified User (2 months, 4 weeks) Shouts: 30 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 5 days ago (2 hours, 1 minute after post)

Tzubake wrote:
You know when you’re in love when it hurts too much to let it go…

Oh, I like that quote! Very true.

Also, I actually like to think of it in two ways.

Like what Dan said, when you don’t have to question if you are or not. You just know.

But then, there’s a lot of the times we are telling ourselves we are, and it never lasts. I think, that when you’re in love, it lasts. So you never really know until you spend the rest of forever with them.

And there’s my corny side again…

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Kalorok online Verified User (6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 weeks, 2 days ago (1 week, 3 days after post)

you just know. trust me. if you think you are in love you’re not. when you are in love you dont question it. it is like breathing, you dont have to think about it, it just happens and is just always there where you are. it feels like they are always next to you.

there is no true definition of love

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