girl help: I need fresh ideas on how to see someone I’m not exactly allowed to see.

Wonderousness

I need fresh ideas on how to see someone I’m not exactly allowed to see.

The jiff of it that you absolutely must keep in mind is that I’m a guy. 113 days away from driving. I’m with a girl whom my parents don’t like. Her parents do not like me either. She lives about 15 miles away, which is possible for me to bike there but my parents are always constantly wondering where I am. I have a father that lives about 5 minutes away from her driving time. I’ve seen her a few times with luck on my side. We’ve grown tired of very public places such as the mall, the movies, and thing we generally have to have money to be welcome. I just want a good, clean, cheap way to see her more often. We go to different schools and school is about to start.

So let’s keep in mind here…

1. Parents don’t like the respective other child.
2. Trying to avoid public places.
3. 15 miles away unless I’m at my Father’s, but when I’m there it’s an even harder time for me to see her. He watches me like a hawk.
4. These ideas need to last me the next 110 or so days until I can drive.
5. Sneaky ideas are welcome. (I’m accustomed to sneaking out.)

Please and thank you for all ideas.

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optimismiles 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

sneak out and go stargazing. this works for me, i live in the middle of nowhere. maybe it’d work for you. girls love it.

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optimismiles 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

you’d probably have to ride your bike.. at night.. but. she’d love it.

Help me with: “i’ll fall in love if you want me to,

Wonderousness 14 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

Oh. I forgot to mention, my bike stays with my mother unless I convince my dad otherwise. (He knows I love this girl enough to bike to her house fro my mother’s, but he also knows I’m lazy and I’d rather have the bike at his house. Which he won’t allow unless I had some “Pure” motive and not to see her.)

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pirateship198 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

why don’t your parents like her and why don’t her parents like you?

Wonderousness 14 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

Her parents not liking me is an overstatement. They like me. Just not as much as her last boyfriend. They’d much rather have him around, but she was miserable with him. He’s the type to.. how you would say, “Show face”. You know?

My parents don’t like her is an understatment. They have a deep resentment because for a very long time she was stringing me along and I went for it. Given why I’m so accustomed to sneaking out.

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southern_comfort 34 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

Where is your computer located? If it’s in your bedroom consider buying dual web cams. Of course if things don’t work out between you two you’ll probably never see the cam at her place again. Worth the investment?

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Wonderousness 14 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (21 minutes after post)

We use to do that all the time. Just to feel closer, but it quickly became old because she has dial-up. Slideshow web cameras are not fun.

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southern_comfort 34 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

Your parents are divorced I take it.

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Wonderousness 14 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

Divorced. Never married. Either or.

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nacccle 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (4 hours, 14 minutes after post)

reason with your parents
bring her around to your mums or dads
what are they going to do? kick her out?
show them what a lovely girl she is
and that she is no longer leading you on
any reasonable parents will give in

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Wonderousness 14 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (20 hours, 44 minutes after post)

That is quite the idea, Naccle. When she becomes comfortable with the idea, which I’m sure I could work in eventually, I’ll be sure to have you in my thoughts when I’m thanking.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (4 days, 1 hour after post)

shut up

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