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• An update, I’m going into the Albert Road Clinic here in Melbourne, a psych ward. posted (1 week) ago
  I am having a blood test tomorrow, seeing the psychologist at 4:00pm and then going into the psych …

• This is actually a video taken from the last half of my session with my psychologist yesterday. posted (4 weeks, 1 day) ago
  [youtube:http://youtube.com/watch?v=LHbCBxhAHMc]…

• My friend Fourthings, posted (1 month) ago
  Is furry.…

• Normal waking consciousness has become almost unbearable and reached the very brink of converting into a pre-aferlife pergatory, posted (1 month, 1 week) ago
  Hyperactive inner-reflection and exploration seeks underwhelmingly for a logical or abstract way or …

• Academic monotony and mundane inadequecy.. posted (2 months) ago
  An independant variable is controlled by the experimenter and in the case of the experimental metho…

• Lovesick, betrayal, misunderstanding, overestimating, over-relying.. posted (2 months) ago
  The lethal wrench of your being that threatens to shatter a brittle happiness into shards of forebo…

• Melancholy and the infinite sadness, kissing families.. posted (2 months, 2 weeks) ago
  Hmm. I’ve had a few lows this past week. Its different in a way because I am aware. I do not …

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• (1 vote) Normal waking consciousness has become almost unbearable and reached the very brink of converting into a pre-aferlife pergatory,
  

  Mmm, thank you for the good read Anonymous85. You give nicely structured advice that my mind doesn’t almost instantaneously rip to shreds and quickly discard = )
  
  I am a musician, I play multiple instruments, though I would say that my main tool of expression musically is the guitar. I can not let go of the love that I desire, I’m beginning to feel careless and somehow content with myself.. But I do not want to lose what I consider to be a unique understanding and hunger for a very deep and true love. I know that I have felt it before and even suffered as a result, but I know that as soon as I realize that the person that incredible longing and affection is aimed at feels romantically inclined towards me as well, it would be.. I don’t know, worth everything that I have been through. Ah. I imagine it every night whilst cuddling a pillow, pretending it another person.
  
  I think that that *is* or could be a reality whether I feel it or not. And it isn’t about the other person being perfect or fulfilling on ‘every level’, it is just about me feeling the way I have described in poems that I’ve written and knowing that they accept that and actually want that from me.
  
  You’re right, I am completely inside of my head within my thoughts, never considering the physical or spiritual needs that I myself need as a person. But when I start feeling differently, whether it be better or not, I want to crawl back inside myself and be intensely connected with my mind again, because that is the place I am used to and where I feel as though I am myself.
  
  Good advice on the decision-making. I am extremely indecisive, I may have an instant instinctual answer to a question, but I’ll question why I would say that and if I truly want to etc.. Also, I have an empathetic ability to project other people’s feelings onto myself or vice-versa, and see the mindset behind both opinions within an argument. The question is, which decision or point of view is correct? That actually takes a lot of thought. What I found most helpful from that paragraph was, ‘But consider whether you really have to make a decision on it now,” = ).
  
  Sexuality.. It doesn’t bother me, you’re right, it isn’t really a choice, who you’re attracted to. It just is what it is.. I don’t feel any prejudice or pressure.
  
  Thank you so much for your input Anonymous85 = )
  
  What about you? From your other post, I can tell that you have been through much. If you need any help at all, I’m there.
  
  - written 1 month ago – voted for by purple amber

• (1 vote) My Fellow helpers, I sit here telling people what they
  

  Felicity. I think that there is a difference between knowing what to do or having sound advice, and being ready or able to see it through yourself. In any case, in giving advice that you may not follow yourself may be hypocritical.. But, it is also a kind gesture, and trying to help someone whether it is hypocritical or not, is in my opinion, a good thing. I remember when you replied to one of my posts and you kept asking questions and probing me.. I appreciated that. = )
  ~squidge~
  
  - written 1 month, 1 week ago – voted for by purple amber

• (1 vote) I like to…………………………R 30;
  

  ~gives you seven billion stars~
  
  - written 2 months ago – voted for by jessica33313

• (1 vote) I can’t f-ing stand it anymore.
  

  God I really feel for you man. I was clinically depressed and had other problems as well for two years and came very close to the brink. I’ve pretty much vowed never to smoke or do drugs, I did but I’ve never been drunk and probably never will be because I’m a lightweight, but maybe the experimentation with drugs inevitably messed you up more? If you’ve been depressed this long then I’m sure that there’s a chemical imbalance within your brain or something like that, I had medication which wasn’t anti-depressants and had no side effects (Ask about SamE - pronounced Sammy - The bottle of it that I have is called Thompson’s mood manager). I also removed myself from my current situation and a lot of stress and things that fed into my fears disapeared. I only had that medication for two weeks and I felt very different. The same, but without being constantly frightened and ready to kill myself. .. take up playing guitar. = )
  
  Good lucccck, and trust me, it can be better. Its a little strange for me because I can’t remember not being depressed so.. I’m still rediscovering everything.
  
  - written 3 months, 4 weeks ago – voted for by mosley

• (1 vote) .
  

  Just be yourselfffff and don’t be nervous. People like you a lot better if you’re not trying to be liked.
  
  - written 8 months, 4 weeks ago – voted for by spiritedsoul

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• ~Men VS Women~
  

  *bites Shie*
  - written 1 week ago

• ~Are You Having A Bad Day~
  

  Hehe
  
  *beats the **** out of the sack*
  
  WHOA that sounds kind of wrong.. Its not what it looks like! o.o”
  - written 1 week, 1 day ago

• Need some more music
  

  *26 is dancier than 4
  - written 1 week, 1 day ago

• Need some more music
  

  Obscure indie.. Well there is this really interesting and nice band called ‘This Town Needs Guns’ that is pretty underground and unknown yet talented. Look up their song.. 24 is dancier than 4, I’m pretty sure thats its name.
  - written 1 week, 1 day ago

• This was a ‘Goodbye to most everyone here’.
  

  Hehe, well you were obviously frustrated and that is understandable because you put a lot of effort into your posts and helping people in general. Its natural to want or expect something back = )
  
  You should of made a post describing how you felt about this instead of a goodbye :0 Its cool that you seem to have changed your mind a little bit n__n
  - written 1 week, 1 day ago

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